Friday, June 18, 2010

Off to Wordpress......

Okay, I have officially moved my blog over to Wordpress. It is at www.takeactionforafrica.wordpress.com and some posts will be password protected.
If you want the password, shoot me an email, tjones6575@gmail.com.

Silvia is being kind enough to blog moderate for me this trip!!! So plan on visiting and hearing about all the adventures!!!

Sunday, June 6, 2010

BLOG MOVE....

Hi,

I am moving this blog over to a wordpress account.. I don't know if once I do, if this stays up.. I think is might.... but in case it doesn't... please email me at tjones6575@gmail.com if you are interested in continuing to follow.. I will be able to send you the password-- as some of my posts will be password protected.

www.takeactionforafrica.wordpress.com

This will be the new name.. but nothing is up yet.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Baggage....

I'm slightly hyperventilating here!!! Okay... so crafts, donations etc.. were overtaking my house, so I thought I would start packing one suitcase.. so I decided to go online and check baggage requirements.. Now, I was planning on paying the $55 or so for a third bag on Air France and hoping that I would be able to get Ethiopian Air on my second leg to waive their fee but once again, another $50 doable. Well, I go on Air France.. and they now only allow one bag for Economy!!!!!! The second is $55 and the 3rd is $200!!!!! Holy Crap!!! But then there is some language about when your ticket was purchased and of course, these restrictions literally went into effect the day my flight was purchased.. I mean the actual day, March 28th!! But when I go on Air France and put in my flight info, it says I can take two pieces under each of my itineraries.. I don't know how you get a hold of talking to someone and I don't know who to ask!!! I can not do this trip in 2 bags!! I am going to two orphanages and am bringing a lot of stuff!!! I don't know what to do.. plus I purchased my flights through a cheap air place... and so I'm on a ton of different carriers!! Bad move on my part!!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Crafts.... Yea!!





Last night my friend Shannan invited me over to share all the craft she has made for me... She made me examples, got me all the supplies and even wrote up little directions!! She is awesome. In addition to all of this... she made dinner and sent me home with leftovers for lunch the next day. You can't pay for service like that!!! Oh and I loved when her daughter Talia(age 5) handed me one extra craft(a paper Hula skirt) just in case no one liked the crafts her mother picked!!!!

Still collecting crafts... especially any ideas for the big kids!!!

Monday, May 24, 2010

Collecting...

So, it looks like I am collecting children's gummy vitamins, sterile gloves, craft projects... toy cars, ABC stuff..... and planning on purchasing clothes, shoes, bedding in Ethiopia!!

Oh and in a couple of funny coincidences, I met a new friend who adopted twice from Layla and an acquaintance who is #2 on the referral list for her agency for a baby from Ethiopia. Small world!!

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Evaluation...

As I am attempting to pick up my little house which seems to look like a tornado hit it... which if anyone has been to my house, you know that it's usually quite tidy... I came across my evaluation that my principal just did... in schools, you get evaluated every two years once you are tenured.. It is quite simply my most glowing evaluation to date... and this is the final paragraph....

"Ms. Jones demonstrates a work ethic paralleled by few. She tirelessly collaborates with staff and administrators to meet the needs of every one of her students. As an expert in her field, she is able to draw on an extensive repertoire of resources and strategies to address the problems and concerns of her students. As a reflective individual, she patiently listens to others to determine possible alternative strategies. Her wisdom and understanding of others belie her age. Additionally, she makes a substantial contribution to the school with her Earth Day, Needy Families and Ethiopia Reads projects. Everyone values her as an indispensable social and emotional standard bearer of the school."

And as I go to bed, with a yucky summer cold or sinus infection... and am stressing about all the groups and paperwork I still need to get done in the next two weeks... this is what I'm going to choose to focus on. G'Night!!

Friday, May 14, 2010

A small difference....


Okay, so it almost the end of the school year. We are done June 4th. So that means that there are 13 school days and 1 hour.. holy crap I have a lot of work to accomplish!!

But as much as we are stressing about the end of school, so are many of the kids. There is one little guy who was new to our school this year. When you look at his records, it is clear that he may have ADHD.. and his mom has finally secured an evaluation for him this June.. but with about a month of school left, he was driving his teacher slightly insane and she said the worst was that he couldn't stay in his seat.

So, I made him a little envelope that said "I will stay in my seat." and taped it to the side of his desk. Every time she sees him seated, she gives him a little ticket that says Caught being good. If he has 10 tickets at the end of the day, he gets a prize from this bag of prizes I left(stretchy animals, little dinos, crayons etc.)-- well he has been struggling a bit but today on my way into school.. early, like about 30-40 minutes before the kids were due and he is already on the playground playing catch with his sister and some of her friends.. he comes running towards me yelling 10, 10, 10 tickets.. so I said, "Oh, did you get ten tickets yesterday?" "Yes!" "Well, high five! What prize did you pick?" "A dinosaur." and then he ran back to play. It was a nice way to come into school and to one small person, I think I made a small difference today.

Did you??

A fellow blogger...

So this stunning photo was taken junior year turnabout. My date is standing behind me and I believe is a Ph. D and possibly an physicist or something else super brainy.. yes, I always found intelligence sexy-- just wish I was having better luck these days... a later post on Plenty of Fish-- guessing I will soon have some more dating stories to crack everyone up with.

Anyway, I digress.... the lovely lady in the equally stunning blue dress as mine(we clearly didn't talk about what we were wearing that night) is my friend Ange.. she has the blog www.willandellie.blogspot.com and is on my list at the bottom of the blog.. Anyway, I get a facebook message from her the other day that says we need to do breakfast, maybe mimosas, get you away from all your career craziness and here I'm thinking wow, she's psychic before I realized that she is only of the few people out there still reading this thing!!! So, a shout out to Ange and check out her blog.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Possibly going private...

I am toying with the idea of going private.. It would mean I would have to transfer my blog over to another site.. maybe word press.. as blogger does not allow you to choose to keep some posts private and others not.. the only reason I would consider keeping it open is that I have appeared to have gained some viewers that I don't know personally and I'd hate to miss out on anyone who would like to participate.. I have reasons as to why I might be going private.. and if I do, I will certainly put up a notice and if you want to continue following, I can pass on the password. Plus the whole transferring over process sounds taxing to me.. or maybe I'm just tired.. it is Monday.. though I only have 2 more Mondays left for the 2009-2010 school year. Yea!!

Earth Day Pics....




Our fifth grade transitional students were invited by the town to help plant a tree in one of the local parks.

Groups of the almost 150 students who signed up to collect trash after school on Earth Day. The adults in the photos are my parents who came to help out, hence the ice cream, Cubs hats and sparkly headbands.

It was a beautiful day.. unfortunately I did not get to enjoy it as there was another crisis at school.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Lola pictures

Abebe with the first baby at Lola!
The outside of Lola House.
The gorgeous Lola guard dog!!!

I seemed so pathetic that last post, so I thought I'd post some happy pictures that were just posted to the Lola Fund page by one of the awesome adoptive mom's parents who recently visited Abebe at Lola House.

I am very excited to spend my time at Lola and helping to get whatever needs to be started, started! I had an amazing conversation with Allie who is one of the founders of the non for profit, supporting Lola and am even more psyched to make my journey up to Mekele. Though that bus trip should be interesting. :) Less than 6 weeks away.

May 9th


I have a ton of posts that I haven't put up.. from Earth Day, Book Club etc... but work has been really chaotic lately. There have truly been a ton of crisis-- true crisis that have involved DCFS, police, hospitals, mental health professionals(other than me)-- parents, students, administrators etc. It really got me thinking.. I truly do love my school-- I have a great principal, some super teachers and I really like my kids.... but I've been in my district for 10 years-- and my principal retires at the end of 2010-2011 and I can't tell you what a difference it makes having your boss have your back no matter what- and also having someone who really thinks you are competent is also awesome. Plus in the past two years, my two friends at work who have been the ones to work on my extra projects with me left to have babies. And now we've learned that the teacher that I work the closest with at school, who I eat lunch with and consider one of my good friends outside of school is being moved to another school in the district and none of us have any control over it. So, I guess the question is where to go from here. I have a mortgage and tried to sell my condo about 3 years ago, but needless to say with the housing issues, there was no movement. I know that it would be difficult for me to move as a school social worker as I have 11 years experience and 2 master's degrees... I also got an administration degree in education several years ago and ideally I'd love to be a Special Education administrator, but with the education crisis in Illinois and the amount of layoffs, I don't know if that is a reasonable goal at this point. The other fear of leaving education for another type of social work is that I'd lose my summers and I LOVE my summers... I can't imagine not having the ability to plan another trip like last summer.

So I guess at this point, I should focus on making my trip this summer the best I can, heading into next school year with as much positivity as I can muster, if not for me than for the kids and my principal as it will be her last year. And the funny thing is I do want to work on the projects she and I've discussed, I just feel like we do that and then another shoe drops and I'm told I can't. And I guess try to find someone else to eat lunch with. :(

But next year, I need to really evaluate my options.. Do I try to sell again? Do I look into the possibility of working overseas?

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Happy 1st Birthday Charlie!!

CHARLIE AND HIS SILVER SPEEDSTER FROM THE LAND OF NOD
CHARLIE DESPERATELY TRYING TO GET AWAY!!

Tuesday was my godson Charlie's first birthday. He is Juliet's brother who has made the blog several times as she is almost four and has a "big" personality. I was pushing her on the swing on Tuesday and she asked me if I would come to her wedding. Uh sure... it's not any time soon is it?? Then she proceeded to ask if I was at her mother's wedding... yes, I was, I stood up next to her and wore that dress with the brown bow.. there are pictures. Sigh, well, I wasn't there!! Yes, you were not born yet. But yes, both your mother and I will be at your wedding. Good. Are you kidding me?? Well, at least she's better prepared than I.. perhaps, she will be married before 40.

Anyway back to Charlie.. both sets of grandparents were there(one set lives in Conn), our friend Shandell and obviously his parents and Juliet. I stopped and picked up a cake from Sweet Mandy B's in the city on my way.. yellow cake, fresh strawberries and buttercream in the layers(3 layers) and vanilla buttercream frosting. I love this cake!!

Charlie opened his gifts, I got him a riding toy from the Land of Nod-- which I had difficulty putting together(user friendly directions, my a$$)-- Jim's stepdad had to put the steering wheel on for me and Jim needed to tighten all the bolts the next day. It was an awfully cute toy though and he seemed to like it!! Maybe it will help with exercise, he is a very big boy!!

Well, a very happy 1st to you Charlie!!

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Happy 40th Earth Day!!!


Happy Earth Day to everyone!!! Been a very busy week with lots of activities.... I will bring the camera home this evening and post all about them... but want to make sure that everyone knows today is the 40th anniversary of Earth Day which began in 1970!!!

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Crafts... HELP!!!

Hi,
I'm looking for craft ideas to take with me to Ethiopia.. This is one of the crafts I did last summer.. but since I didn't know that I should bring crafts.. I ended up spending many nights by candle light cutting out spider legs etc... So, my plan this year is to come prepared. So, if you have simple craft ideas... please pass them on to me.. along with a list of what supplies I'll need..

And if you are able-- I would be thrilled if anyone was able to put together craft kits for the kids.. if there is an age group you think you can do this for, email me and I'll let you know how many kids are in that age group... One of my friends is having her daughter's Daisy troop make up some kits for a badge project...

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Alternate Plans... or a trip to Mekele..




Okay... so the thought is if I don't go down to southern Ethiopia/Awassa.. then where do I spend the rest of my time that I planned on being in Ethiopia(my flights are already booked)... I figure I have about 2 weeks or so open.
My next thought was go visit Abebe and Lola House. Abebe for the 3 of you reading this blog who don't know him personally was the social worker at AHOPE while I was there. Abebe himself was an orphan from the Tigray region in Northern Ethiopia and has always planned to open an orphanage for HIV+ children in that area, as there aren't any. So, after getting some good experience while working for AHOPE, Abebe left this past fall and begin his own place in Mekele, Ethiopia. It is called Lola House and is starting with 15 children with the hope of becoming much larger.
I know Abebe, I trust Abebe.... so I Facebooked him. (it still kills me that you can do that across the world. :) ) He got right back to me and said, of course we'd love to have you.. just tell me when.
So thoughts anyone??? My gut is saying this is probably the right thing to do for me and for whomever I am working with, as you have to go in it with the right spirit.. and I am not feeling that at the moment for my other option.. though it is hard for me to change directions mid stream, just not my style... Anyway, as I have been thinking about this.. I started doing some research into Mekele.. these are photos I've found online... the Starbucks one really kills me!!

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Safari in Tanzania!!



I've booked a safari in Tanzania for the end of my trip this summer-- I arrive in Tanzania August 4th and return home on August 12th. Now, I'm not saying I will have gorgeous photos like this, but these photos were taken in the same places I will be on safari-- so maybe I could get lucky?? Amazing, eh?

Questions about summer...




Okay, so most of you know that my plans for this summer is to go back to Ethiopia. Part of the time I planned on spending in southern Ethiopia, near where I was when I went to find the Donkey Mobile Library. But recently I received a note that really upset me- without going into the details, I'm just not sure how I feel about volunteering my time and continuing to financially support this organization. I'm sure that they are doing good things, I just don't know if I feel comfortable working side by side with someone who I feel may look at things so differently than me. So at the moment I'm investigating some other opportunities while I am there. I'll keep you posted. But for now, take a look at my table set for Easter brunch tomorrow. It is a real shame that I'm not dating anyone, I am one darn good hostess!!

Enjoying the 80 + degree day in early April!!

I spent yesterday(Friday) with my friend from high school, Lynn and her girls. It was unbelievably warm-- sleeveless dress warm. We walked up to the Starbucks, got lattes and headed to the park. This is Dana, Lynn's youngest. I was practicing with my new camera. I ended up purchasing a Nikon D5000 and I love it!! Her big sister was not particularly happy with us as she blamed us for getting a skinned knee on the way home from Sbucks. I love being able to spend the day outside!! Lynn made us all lunch and then I went to deliver Juliet and Charlie's Easter basket. Didn't take pictures, but it was a chicken themed basket this year.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Rosaries for Sale??? Easter, Mother's Day, First Communion gift???



Sr. Donna and the children at Heartland- in the southern region of Sidama, near Awassa made these rosaries. They are beaded and have Ethiopian silver crosses. Sr. Donna is requesting a $20 donation for each rosary. I will happily drop them off or mail them to you if you live outside Chicago. The money will go to help children like the ones at the start of this post. I will get to meet them this June!!!

Monday, March 8, 2010

Happy 100th Anniversary of International Women's Day!!

Well, I wish I'd know this was International Women's Day, I would have had some new to prattle on to my colleagues about at work today--- thank you Nick for filling me in....

March 8, 2010, 10:30 am

Three Proven Steps to Advance the World’s Women, on International Women’s Day

Today is International Women’s Day, and in fact the 100th anniversary of International Women’s Day. It’s a date that is much better known abroad but is beginning to get more traction in the U.S. as well.

So what interventions get the most bang for the buck in raising the status of women around the world? What is most helpful in overcoming injustices such as human trafficking and acid attacks? I’d welcome your ideas below, but let me toss out a few of my suggestions for most effective interventions:

First, I think girls’ education may be the single most cost-effective kind of aid work. It’s cheap, it opens minds, it gives girls new career opportunities and ways to generate cash, it leads them to have fewer children and invest more in those children, and it tends to bring women from the shadows into the formal economy and society. It’s not a panacea, of course. Lebanon and Sri Lanka were leaders in girls’ education, and both ended up torn apart by conflict. In India, the state of Kerala has done a fine job in girls’ education, but its state economy is still a mess and dependent on remittances. But overall, educating girls probably has a greater transformative effect on a country than anything else one can do.

Second, I’d argue for deworming and micronutrients. These may not sound like they’re “women’s issues,” but in a sense they are. For example, iodine deficiency particularly affects female fetuses, for reasons that we don’t fully understand. Insufficient iodine in the first trimester of pregnancy costs that child 10 to 15 I.Q. points for the rest of his or her life, and yet iodized salt programs that prevent the problem cost less than 5 cents per person reached. There are still tens of millions of girls out there with cognitive deficits because so much salt in poor countries is still not iodized. Likewise, women and girls disproportionately suffer from anemia, partly because of menstruation. In the United States, if a woman showed up at an E.R. with a hemoglobin level of, say, 9, she might get an immediate blood transfusion, and lower levels are rarely seen. In contrast, hemoglobin levels of 5 and 6 are routinely seen among women in poor countries – just unheard of in the United States. Deworming would help them, because worms cause anemia, and costs only about 50 cents per person and lasts a year (deworming is backed by groups like Deworm the World). So would iron supplements, which likewise are very cheap and can be given in particular to high school girls and to women expecting to become pregnant. Family planning likewise falls in this category: an intervention that is relatively cheap, pays for itself, and is vastly underfunded.

Third, we need more support for women starting businesses. These can be microsavings and microlending programs, or training in entrepreneurship. BRAC and Grameen have done great work in this area, as has Injaz in the Middle East. Such programs lead women to bring in incomes, and that gives them more weight in the home and society. Moreover, they tend to invest the income in their children, so there’s a broader effect in fighting poverty.

Lots of aid groups implement these kinds of approaches, including the big ones like CARE, Save the Children, Mercy Corps, and so on. So do small ones; Camfed, for example, is focused on girls’ education in Africa. I’d welcome your thoughts below both on what interventions are most cost-effective, and on the organizations you recommend to others. So many Americans are looking for good aid groups to support, and here’s your chance to recommend some to other readers.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Silent Auction - wine extravaganza!!

And the winner is.....
Waiting to hear who won the wine raffle....
The raffle prizes were these huge bottles of Ravenswood Zinfindal, donated by my friend Brian and Southern Wine and Spirits.
The auction table.... scarves, bags, puzzles, necklaces, coffees, prints etc.
Shandell and Wendy watching my movie of Ethiopia.. which considering I had one day to complete it due to technical difficulties, turned out pretty good.
Enjoying some wine and catching up.. thanks for taking pictures Pat.
Picking a winner!!!


Last night was my one and only silent auction and wine event for this summer's Ethiopian activities. Last year I brought back a bunch of items from Ethiopia that I have been saving just for this purpose. My old friend from high school, Brian Bollow offered to donate wine for the event and my dear friends Pat and Silvia offered up their beautiful house in Oak Park for the night.

It was an amazing evening with wonderful old and new friends attending, drinking lots of wine, eating yummy desserts and learning about the places I've worked with in Ethiopia and the ones I plan to work with this summer.

It was a great success-- a slightly smaller crowd than hoped for, but a wonderfully fun and generous crowd. Financially it was pretty darn successful and I look forward to being able to use this money to good use this summer!!!!

Thank you so much if you came-- it really meant a lot to me.. and I'll admit at about 7:15-- I was beginning to think Silvia and I were going to have to drink an awful lot of wine.. :)

Monday, March 1, 2010

Upcoming Silent Auction...

Book marks made from Banana Art.
A hand embroidered ball.
Necklaces and change purse made from a milk package.
Puzzles from the Misrach Center
Necklaces from Misrach Center
A scarf from the Women's Former Fuelwood Carrier's Project
A bag crafted by ALERT- Leprosy Hospital

Next weekend, I am hosting a wine/dessert party with a silent auction. The items are things I've brought back from Ethiopia. I certainly hope more people come than have RSVP'd!!!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Kwelanga part 3

Finally, by morning, the chief and his advisor knew what to do. No one had ever survived the climb up Mt. Zulu. At the top stood a thorn tree. When Zamo arrived at the great chief's home at sunrise, the Chief said, "Sitting high on top of Mt. Zulu is a great tree of thorns. If you survive the treacherous climb, then you must take the furthest thorn from the branch reaching out beyond the cliff and bring it back to me." At that the chief went to take his rest.

Zamo courageously looked up at Mt. Zulu and up at the thorn tree reaching out far beyond the cliff. He knew the danger ahead, but proceeded anyway with hope in his heart. Steadily he began to climb, pulling himself over large boulders and sharp rocks. When finally, after many hours of climbing, Zamo pulled himself to the top. He looked down over the cliff at the sharp and rugged earth far below. One false step and he would surely fall to his death. As he began to reach for the thorn tree, there came again a song of grace and beauty.
"Thorn tree, thorn tree
wind and weather worn tree
your topmost thorn please
pluck for Zamo and me."
At that a great wind blew down from the heavens and the thorn pulled itself from it's branch and feel into the outstretched arms of Zamo. Zamo held tightly to the thorn and when he turned to go back down the Mt., he saw Kwelanga smiling and waiting for him. He then knew it had been Kwelanga all along who had encouraged him to succeed in his tasks.

Hand in hand, they returned to her father, the great chief Abebe. When he saw the thorn in one hand and Kwelanga in the other, it was the great chief who bowed low.
" You have no land
you have no riches, but you have courage and love in your heart for my daughter. There is no better man in the land to marry my dearest daughter, Kwelanga. "

Kwelanga and Zamo were married and built a beautiful and modest home using felled trees, mud from the river and rocks from the mountain. And there they lived a happy and fruitful life together always.

THE END

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Last trip to Sonoma....


Three years ago.. Dell, Tess and I headed out to Sonoma- Russian River area for a wine weekend. This weekend, Dell and I make the return to Healdsburg. We are staying at a super cute B & B, called the Camelia Inn... looking forward to wine, good food and friends.

Another Jane Kurtz post...


So my favorite author and pen pal, Jane just sent me another two books!! I send this woman who is a very busy author and speaker an incredibly belated thank you and a week later, I get these two books in the mail. I believe that Goodwin Book Club will need to have a Jane Kurtz book as one of the selections!!!

Super New Shoes!!


So, I needed to get a new pair of run around sneakers.. and had my eye on these Ed Hardy ones that I saw on Nordstrom.com.. well they didn't have them at the store but I found these.. They are called Eco Sneaks. They are made of recycled tires, hemp and organic cotton.. I think they are pretty sweet-- I'm excited to wear them this weekend!!